It’s a painful cycle. Your depression symptoms can lead you to isolate yourself socially. And then in turn, being socially isolated can increase your depression symptoms.
People with depressive symptoms report having more negative social interactions and react more strongly to them than people who are not depressed. The main symptoms of depression that can affect your social life? Loss of interests, self-blame, impaired concentration and depressed mood.
Here are some small steps you can take to improve your depression symptoms and your social life:
The information and resources below can help you start the conversation and find support.
1 in 4 Canadians experiences depression serious enough to need treatment during their lifetime. So if you’re one of the people suffering, you are not alone.
Depression (major depressive disorder) is a common and serious medical illness that negatively affects how you feel, the way you think and how you act. Depression causes feelings of sadness and/or a loss of interest in activities that you once enjoyed. It can lead to a variety of emotional and physical problems and can decrease a person’s ability to function at work and at home.
Feeling sad or having
a depressed mood
Loss of interest or pleasure
in activities once enjoyed
Changes in appetite – weight loss
or gain unrelated to dieting
Trouble sleeping or
sleeping too much
Loss of energy or
increased fatigue
Increase in purposeless
physical activity (e.g.,
hand-wringing or pacing)
or slowed movements and
speech (actions observable
by others)
Feeling worthless
or guilty
Difficulty thinking, concentrating
or making decisions
Thoughts of death
or suicide
Biochemistry:
Differences in certain chemicals in the brain may contribute to symptoms
of depression.
Genetics:
Depression can run in families.
For example, if
one identical twin
has depression, the
other has a 70 percent
chance of having the
illness sometime
in life.
Personality:
People with low self-
esteem, who are easily
overwhelmed by stress,
or who are generally
pessimistic appear
to be more likely to experience depression.
Environmental factors:
Continuous exposure to violence, neglect, abuse or poverty may make some people more vulnerable to depression.
Depression is often accompanied by anxiety symptoms, and symptoms of anxiety may be assessed as part of a diagnosis of depression.
To help recognize and rate
the severity of anxiety
symptoms associated with
MDD, we use the term
“with anxious distress”.
Anxious distress is defined as the presence of at least two of the
following
symptoms during the majority of days of a major depressive episode:
Keyed up or tense
Unusually restless
Difficulty concentrating because of worry
Fear that something awful may happen
Afraid of
losing control
Both men and women suffer from depression.
Although both men and women experience depression, women are twice as likely to receive treatment for depression. This may be due to higher rates of depression in women; it’s also possible that women are more likely to seek help than men. Depression symptoms may be different in men and women. For example, depressed men typically have a high rate of feeling irritable, angry and discouraged, while depressed women can feel sad or “empty” and lose interest or pleasure in activities.
Depression is common.
1 in 4 Canadians experiences depression serious enough to need treatment during their lifetime. Remember, you are not alone!
Depression is not just a temporary change in mood, a character defect or a sign of weakness.
Depression is a real medical condition and more importantly, there is treatment available.
There are ways to monitor depression symptoms.
Your doctor can monitor your symptoms through a series of assessments. There is no shame in seeking help for a medical condition like depression. Don’t feel like this is something you need to deal with on your own.
Depression affects many parts of your life, not just your mood.
You might be surprised to hear that depression can affect things like your feelings, moods, energy levels and ability to think.
It’s not something you can just “snap out of”.
Several factors, including differences in certain chemicals in the brain, genetics, personality, or environmental factors may play a role in depression. You can’t just tell yourself to stop – depression is a real medical condition.
Depression can be emotional, physical, and cognitive.
You may be experiencing the following things: you’ve stopped enjoying things you used to or have lost interest in activities; feeling down, depressed, or hopeless; sleeping too much or not enough; losing energy or feeling fatigued; not eating enough or eating too much, weight gain or loss; low self-esteem, feeling guilty or like a failure; trouble thinking, concentrating on things or making decisions; moving or speaking more slowly than you used to, so that other people have noticed, or being so restless that you’ve been moving around a lot; and thoughts about hurting yourself, or that you would be better off dead. It’s important to know that you may not experience all of these symptoms and the severity, frequency and duration can vary. As well, you may not have the same symptoms as someone else who has depression. Talk to your doctor about all of your symptoms.
Consult your doctor before making any adjustments to any medication.
It’s so important that you follow your doctor’s instructions regarding any medications you may be taking, and continue to take it as prescribed – after all, your doctor prescribed it for a reason.
There are several ways to treat depression – not just medication.
You may think that your doctor can only prescribe drugs, but there are many different ways to treat depression. Your doctor could suggest counselling and behaviour modification, such as “cognitive behavioural therapy” or CBT. CBT is given by a psychologist and helps people develop problem-solving skills and strategies to deal with their depression. It also helps people recognize distorted thinking and then helps them change behaviours. If necessary, your doctor can prescribe antidepressant medication. You can work with your doctor to help manage your depression.
By putting yourself first and focusing on managing your depression, you will be better equipping yourself to handle the obligations in your life.
It’s easy to let yourself get distracted, but so important to take care of yourself first, before taking care of others.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help from family or friends to help balance things while you focus on yourself.
Working toward specific goals can help you live the life you want while managing depression. You may
start
with setting one small goal to accomplish each day (e.g., writing down 3-5 things you’re grateful
for in a journal
or going to sleep an hour earlier than usual). Ask yourself, "What's one thing I can do
today that helps me get closer to where I want to be?" Once you become more confident, you can work on
accomplishing larger, more long-term goals. Think of the short-term goals you set as stepping-stones to
your larger recovery goal.
To help you figure out what goals to set, think about:
Short-term goal ideas
Long-term goal ideas
Download this form to help keep track of your short- and long-term goals.
Download this helpful journal to help keep track of your symptoms.
Here are some helpful online resources you can access relating to the impact of depression on social life.
The Centre for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH). Depression: An information guide.
https://www.camh.ca/-/media/files/guides-and-publications/depression-guide-en.pdf
WebMD. 6 common depression traps to avoid.
https://www.webmd.com/depression/what-to-know-about-depression-and-work
Please note that Lundbeck is not responsible for the content and management of the websites mentioned above.
For more information about depression and its treatment, or to find help and resources,
you
can refer to the following websites:
MOOD DISORDERS SOCIETY OF CANADA
CENTRE FOR ADDICTION AND MENTAL HEALTH
camh.ca/en/hospital/Pages/home.aspx
CANADIAN MENTAL HEALTH ASSOCIATION
cmha.ca/document-category/mental-health
http://www.heretohelp.bc.ca/factsheet/depression
MENTAL HEALTH COMMISSION OF CANADA
mentalhealthcommission.ca/English/
GOVERNMENT OF QUEBEC
https://www.quebec.ca/en/health/health-issues/mental-health-mental-illness/depression
Please note that Lundbeck is not responsible for the content and management of the websites mentioned above.
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We hope you find this information helpful. Don’t hesitate to discuss any questions or concerns that you have about MDD and the impact of depression on your social life with your healthcare provider.
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